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Wednesday 19 November 2014

SOME TEMPTATIONS THAT CAN RUIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

There are a few temptations that can ruin your relationship, no matter how strong it appears.Unfortunately, we sometimes have desires that lead to destruction and ruin even the strongest relationships. That’s why I decided to share this list of 7 temptations that can ruin your relationship that you need to be aware of.

1. CONSTANT LYING
When you did something that you know your boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife wouldn’t approve of, it can be tempting to
lie to him/her about it. While it can be easy to lie, your lies will haunt you down the road. If you really love each
other, you should never be afraid to tell the truth, no matter how hard it can be. A strong relationship is never based on lies. Remember it.Read also – The Importance of Integrity in Building  Relationships

2. DESIRE TO CHEAT ON YOUR PARTNER
One of the worst temptations that ruin your relationships is the desire to cheat on your partner. If you are in a
long lasting relationship and you meet another man/woman,everything can become so complicated. The only way to
maintain your relationship strong is to refuse to give into that dangerous temptation, if you really love your partner.

3. STEALING.
Stealing your partner’s things
When you are in a long term-relationship and you are living together, it can be tempting to steal your partner’s clothes or cash without asking him. While
many couples are okay with it, others are not comfortable. Your boyfriend/husband has the right to know what you take or how much money you take. Don’t take anything without his permission and you will avoid lots of fights.

4. SPENDING MORE TIME WITH FRIENDS
When you are in a very long-term relationship, you might get jealous of all of the parties and free time your
friends (especially single ones) have. But, don’t allow the temptation of alone time to ruin your relationship.Don’t forget that you can spend time with your friends;
you just need to discuss it with your partner and rearrange your schedule.

5. PUTTING NO EFFORT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Once you have been together for a long time, you may feel so comfortable that you may stop putting effort into
your relationship. While comfort is a great thing, it can be dangerous as well. No matter how long you’ve been together, you still have to put effort into your
relationship to make it last.

6. CONSTANT FIGHTS
When you are in a bad mood, it’s so easy to scream at your partner to let out your emotions, however, he/she could
get hurt and it can lead to numerous fights.Don’t risk upsetting your partner, scream into a pillow if you are
tempted to vent. It may sound funny, but it actually works. Never blame your sweetheart for problems that he/she
didn’t cause. It’s one of the best ways to keep your relationship strong.

7. TAKING YOUR PARTNER'S EFFORTS FOR GRANTED.
Just because you can walk all over him/her,doesn’t mean you should do it. If he/she washes your clothes for you and
makes you breakfast every single morning, let him/her know that his/her hard work is highly appreciated.Treat
your partner with respect and don’t take his/her efforts for granted.It can be hard to keep the relationship strong,
especially if one of the partners put no effort into it. If you want your relationship to stay strong, make sure you don’t act on the aforementioned dangerous desires.
There’s nothing wrong with you, if you have these desires, but just don’t act on them and ensure your partner doesn’t act on them as well. Which one of these desires is the most difficult for you to avoid succumbing to? Do you know any other temptations that can ruin a strong relationship?

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